Hmm, how should I do this without complaining ? Well, I'll try to say this under a relaxed tone since I am aggravaded at the moment.
Some of you probably have never tried "dating services" online, but Im sure you are familier with "networking" since we'er all on tribe.net.
I just have one small problem with people I would like to get to know and probably end up dating them if thats even possible. Sadly there has been no luck for me on the internet or in the freeworld. In the free world its tough approaching someone, people pretend like they are so busy they never have time to settle in for any relationships so they are just open to "friendships." Im not even sure if people are scared or what but I do know that I hate it when people only want to be friends or all they use the internet for is to meet people they can become friends with.
No offense to anyone here, but I personally hate friendships. There is nothing I cant do with myself that I could possibly do with another person. I can even have better conversations with myself than I can with people. Somtimes people expect you to do all the talking while they just sit there and observe just so they can blame you if they become bored or not entertained.
I'd say that I am all alone, but I try very hard to do somthing about it. I day dream about being together with someone that feels the exact same way I do. Friendships don't always lead to a relationship either. Thats just a stupid sterotype that everyone follows. For me its like, if you spend allot of time around me. You might just like me enough to date seriously. Friendships are boring, for odd reasons I can never focus really well around a girl Im not dating. If we are just sitting there talking like two locals passing time, I'll lose interest and wouldnt even care if they called me or not simply because we would just be "friends" and I dont put in any effort to keep a person around if all they want to do is be "friends."
Somtimes I meet people with a dozen opposite sex friends and they arent dating any of them, so its like "what am I?" Part of some sort of collection of single men or women ?
The Single life, doesnt bring much joy in my life anymore. When I was a kid I didnt care about girls. All I cared about were video games, riding a bike, cartoons, and other stuff kids usually liked. I got older and wanted to date more but never got the chance to.....because all people want these days is more damn useless friends to hang out with. If its not friends they want or looking for, its a sex buddy or just a hang out buddy. Those are also useless too. If I wanted to hang out that bad with people instead of dating I'll just go live with my Uncle in Texas for Gods sake. Since thats all he ever does is "hang out."
Some of you probably have never tried "dating services" online, but Im sure you are familier with "networking" since we'er all on tribe.net.
I just have one small problem with people I would like to get to know and probably end up dating them if thats even possible. Sadly there has been no luck for me on the internet or in the freeworld. In the free world its tough approaching someone, people pretend like they are so busy they never have time to settle in for any relationships so they are just open to "friendships." Im not even sure if people are scared or what but I do know that I hate it when people only want to be friends or all they use the internet for is to meet people they can become friends with.
No offense to anyone here, but I personally hate friendships. There is nothing I cant do with myself that I could possibly do with another person. I can even have better conversations with myself than I can with people. Somtimes people expect you to do all the talking while they just sit there and observe just so they can blame you if they become bored or not entertained.
I'd say that I am all alone, but I try very hard to do somthing about it. I day dream about being together with someone that feels the exact same way I do. Friendships don't always lead to a relationship either. Thats just a stupid sterotype that everyone follows. For me its like, if you spend allot of time around me. You might just like me enough to date seriously. Friendships are boring, for odd reasons I can never focus really well around a girl Im not dating. If we are just sitting there talking like two locals passing time, I'll lose interest and wouldnt even care if they called me or not simply because we would just be "friends" and I dont put in any effort to keep a person around if all they want to do is be "friends."
Somtimes I meet people with a dozen opposite sex friends and they arent dating any of them, so its like "what am I?" Part of some sort of collection of single men or women ?
The Single life, doesnt bring much joy in my life anymore. When I was a kid I didnt care about girls. All I cared about were video games, riding a bike, cartoons, and other stuff kids usually liked. I got older and wanted to date more but never got the chance to.....because all people want these days is more damn useless friends to hang out with. If its not friends they want or looking for, its a sex buddy or just a hang out buddy. Those are also useless too. If I wanted to hang out that bad with people instead of dating I'll just go live with my Uncle in Texas for Gods sake. Since thats all he ever does is "hang out."
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Re: Why do they always want to be just damn..friends..?
Tue, December 26, 2006 - 2:30 PMlol I also get the feeling that allot of you aren't really "all alone" people tend to join a gang load of tribes just because they were invited lol. That is why these tribes are often dead with less topics or the lack of activity from the users. I'll try to be more active though since I am new. -
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Re: Why do they always want to be just damn..friends..?
Tue, December 26, 2006 - 2:56 PMHAHahhAhahaAAAaaa!!!!!!
I think women in particular use the *friends first* line so guys don't get the goofy idea that its instant hop in the sack time on the first date because the women have either seen that tried too many times and don't want it, or did it and found it leads to a dysfunctional relationship.
I joined this tribe during a time in my life a couple of years ago when I really thought I wanted someone after the last one left...
but you know what?
Now I don't care.
My goofy observation on tribes in general is that the more specific and limited the theme is, the quicker it fades; add in all of the changes earlier in the year that scared off a bunch of folks and... *yawn*
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Re: Why do they always want to be just damn..friends..?
Tue, December 26, 2006 - 4:03 PMBoy do we have some issues to deal with here.